Art Thou???

Sure you might be wondering if I’ve chosen to go Shakespearean today…far from it. The matter wey dey chok me for liver no be small issue. I’ve come to realize that at the mention of sexual abuse everybody thinks RAPE. Sorry to cast your thoughts away, it aint just rape. Read these short stories. 

Titi is 5 years old; she has a favourite Uncle (Uncle Sam) who she loves playing with. Whenever he comes around he buys gifts for her, this act really made her feel loved. Uncle Sam on the other hand always seizes the moment to touch Titi on sensitive spots whenever she shows appreciation by hugging him. This he did in order to arouse her, and gradually he grew into fingering her, and not been sure of what was taking place, she enjoyed it. Until he grew further into sleeping with her at the age of 7. She could tell no one because she believed she let it happen. 

 

Princess lost her Dad when she was 8 years old. She survived the hardship and struggles of life alongside her mum and her brother, till she was 10 when her mum decided to re-marry. Her step-dad was in the act of slapping her buttocks and boobs, and whenever she tried speaking out, he hit her hard. When she was 12, he tried sleeping with her; she tried hard to save herself, he threatened to kill her younger brother who was 8 years old.  She was scared for her brother’s life, she decided to give in. she told her mum, her step-dad denied and even beat her up.  She told her aunty in school; but no one believed her.

Funke and David (not siblings but similar story), aged 7 and 10 years respectively, both had teenage brothers around ages 15 and 18. These teenage brothers were in the habit of watching pornography of which they made their younger ones watch. Today, Funke and David, now 19 and 22 years old, are porn addicts and are finding it real hard to quit.

Lydia, sweet beautiful teenager of 13 years, was constantly been watched by her cousin (Paul), who enjoyed watching her when she had her bath and when she dressed up. She caught him severally but he claimed it to be a mistake and was only passing by (could he possibly be passing by even into her room?)

Tender Josh lived only 9 months. When he was 8 months old, his grand-father inserted his manhood into his mouth. Josh fed on this for days without his mother’s knowledge (Mom thought “besides, grand-dad is around, he can’t possibly do Josh wrong”). Josh fell ill and all grand-dad’s sins came to life on a fateful day when he was in the act. Josh died few days later.

These are but few stories….

Sexual abuse isn’t just rape, but every bad touch (slaps and touch on sensitive areas), fingering, been made to watch porn, been watched while bathing or dressing and lots more.

And the perpetrators of these acts are usually people we know and trust. Statistics says 50% are family members; 40% are people we trust and know well but are not related to; while 10% are strangers.

And more people are being abused each day. Statistics says 1 out of every 3 girls, and 1 out of every 6 boys will be abused before their 18th birthday. 

From all that has been said, you just might discover that you’ve been abused or just might be abusing someone; NOW that’s why silence shouldn’t be your response to this. BREAK THE SILENCE and stop this monster!!!

you! yes, you! don't stay silent