Its
Children's day...i really would want to remember my fun days as a
child; the nursery ryhmes we sang, the games we played (some with the
cork of soft drinks, some with bicycle wheels and sticks..), the meals
we cooked with weeds and sand in empty tins, the plays we acted...where
we had to act mummy and daddy roles, the debates we had...in which we
had to 'convince and not confuse' people...(laughing); very lovely and
stress free moments.
But in trying to enjoy these memories, i was hit
hard by a story of another abused kid early hours of this morning. She
had to run away from home yesterday because her father who has been
sexually abusing her for the past 3 years wanted abusing her yesterday
again... I can't hold back my pain.
For 3 years now, can you imagine her
pain?She can't have fun like other kids...her father has stolen her
'joys of childhood'. 'is it a crime to be a child?'.., 'is it a crime
that as a child,i don't have strength or words to fight for
myself?'..,'is it a child's fault that he/she was born in the family
he/she was born into?'.., as i picture my days of childhood, i can't
help but run down tears for this child who can't have a worry-free and
problem-free beginning.
I remember my prayers as a child; i always
thanked God for my parents and my siblings, and i prayed that he should
provide for my parents so that i could enjoy it...(what sweet and
'wahala-free' prayer..), but can you imagine the prayer of this
child?...'she wonders if abuse was the reason God made her'...'she
regrets coming out from her mum's belly...she wished she died at
birth'... For her,babies who left the world before they ever saw it, are
the most fortunate...Please,can you pray for children like her today?
Please,while you play with children today to help them feel good, don't
forget to give a hand or ears to one who needs it (there's is definately
one beside you).